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  1. by James A Palmore (Facebook)
    – a friend’s husband – a Gospel musician in Chicago

    When will we(African Americans & people of color) be human? When will the value of our lives been seen as equal to every other group of people in our country?
    My heart is broken and I’m fighting back tears as I read and watch the latest developments in the MURDER of another Black man in America by Law Enforcement Officers. I’m mad as hell and can’t seem to find a way to ease my pain and dissipate my anger.

    This is where America is and unfortunately has never strayed from as her history proves over and over again. And in America, our soul, our birth as a nation, is tied to the undeniable fact that the United States was founded and its growth and expansion, built on theft & and slavery. Theft, because we STOLE, thru willing deception, lies and malicious manipulation, a country that already belonged to its indigenous people. It was built on the backs of a people STOLEN from their homelands, brought here under conditions we wouldn’t want our pets to endure and forced to live, work and die as PROPERTY. All of this because of the COLOR OF OUR(Indigenous & Africans), SKIN.

    Our nation of laws has in place, practices enforced and empowered by law, that automatically sees all that isn’t White as inferior and to some degree NONEXISTENT.
    Where do we go from here. The very first thing we can and must do is pray. However, the majority of White Christian’s unfortunately are blind to their privilege and natural security due the color or better put – non-color of their skin.

    That is the security blanket that African Americans and people of color WILL NEVER HAVE. Nevertheless we pray, knowing that God does hear our cries and He will answer.
    The ONLY way that White America will EVER understand and then ACT, is to actually experience the effect of having their every action judged, scrutinized, analyzed and then acted upon because of their skin color. They will NEVER know the fear of never seeing their children again when they walk out the door to go to school, to go to the store or just simply hang out with friends. This is EVERY BLACK MOTHER AND FATHER’S NIGHTMARE. And let’s not forget, the only reason that Black people make most of the ills that happen to them a race issue is because White people were the ones that made the determination that a person’s skin color would be the deciding factor of whether a person was even CONSIDERED human. Remember the 3/5th law. As a people, we’re just dealing with the hand dealt us.

    Those of us who profess to be Christian have an obligation because of our vow to follow Christ, to seek the higher ground, to activate our Faith in God that He is working for the good of all mankind. For Black Christians, this is something we will always do. And yet still wonder where the conscience of White Evangelicals is, when they can overwhelmingly support a man as President, whose every action goes against the basic principles Christianity is founded on. Empathy for people of color is one thing, sympathy is one thing. Actual agreement from the heart and living that agreement through a relationship with Christ, would produce a different response and reaction to what is happening to Black men in America.

    And by the way, this recent tragedy IS WHY COLIN TOOK A KNEE IN A FOOTBALL GAME! If we can’t see that, your agreement with Christ is missing a very key ingredient. His protest doesn’t have to meet YOUR standards for it to be legitimate or acceptable.
    Just this man’s humble opinion!

  2. Melannie Denise Cunningham
    shared on Facebook by DuRhonda Baskett Palmore

    White friends:
    If you see one of your Black friends post their frustration over the continued murder of Black people (especially our men), here are some tips:

    1. Don’t say All Lives Matter. I don’t know why there is this need to drop this every time someone posts Black Lives Matter. No one is saying only Black Lives Matter. But if all lives really mattered then Black lives wouldn’t be getting snuffed out over the most mundane things. There would be actual justice when a Black person was murdered by a cop or a White person called the cops on a Black person for no reason. The past “crimes” of a Black person wouldn’t be dug up and posted on social media so his/her death could be “justified.” The first conversation wouldn’t be well they should have complied or what were they doing to “deserve” being killed. If all lives mattered then you shouldn’t have a problem saying Black lives matter. If you only bring up all lives matter when someone says Black lives matter…

    2. Don’t bring up Black on Black crime. When Black people kill other Black people, they are usually held accountable. This isn’t always the case when a White person murders a Black person. Plus you don’t really see Black folks asking what about white on white crime when a White person murders another White person.

    3. Don’t ask well what about the good cops. What about them? We not talking about them. Black people understand all cops aren’t the same and that there are good ones. What about the ones that aren’t good? The ones that profile us and see us as a threat. The ones that seem to “fear for their lives” every time a Black person is around. That is who we are angry with. Those are the ones we worry about. And since there is no easy way to identify these good cops, you need to understand Black people will probably always be suspicious of cops until things change.

    4. Don’t say if you’re not doing anything wrong, you don’t have to worry about the cops. See point 3. Also, false. Black folks have been killed when doing absolutely nothing wrong. We could be the “model” minority and still get murdered because reasons.

    5. Don’t ask why we are always posting about race. You want to know why we are “always” posting about race? Because we can’t escape it. One of the first things you notice about a person is their skin color. If our skin color is automatically seen as a threat, how can we not talk about it? How can it not constantly be in the forefront of our mind?

    6. Don’t place the burden of educating you solely on your Black friends. You want to learn more about the Black experience and how to be a better ally. Awesome! Just don’t rely solely on your Black friends to teach you. We have a lot on our plate: seemingly constant reminders that our lives don’t mean much to some, micro aggressions, overt racism, and then having to deal with day to day life stuff. I’m not saying don’t ever ask your Black friends, but also do your own research…find other White allies to ask your questions to. Show us that you are actually putting some effort into understanding where we are coming from instead of just expecting us to spoon feed you everything.

    If you’ve never felt extreme anxiety when a cop pulls up behind you…if you’ve never cycled through all the ways to make yourself appear non-threatening in your mind…if you’ve never thought about going live on social media so in case something does happen to you there is at least a video somewhere, then count yourself blessed and privileged. Because I can guarantee these are the thoughts that run through a lot of Black people’s head when dealing with the police.

    If you don’t shift between a constant state of outrage, anxiety, and numbness, then count yourself blessed and privileged. If you’ve never had to pray to God for peace because you have a Black husband/son/brother and there is always a very real possibility that once they leave home, they might not come back alive and there really isn’t much you can do about it, then count yourself blessed and privileged.

    To the White people that speak up when issues affect the Black community…that are actual allies and not only talk the talk, but walk the walk, thank you.

    To those that never say anything or who are more outraged when a dog is mistreated than when a Black person is, we see you. Do better.